With Grandmom and Nana on my 1st birthday
I was blessed to have two
grandmothers who enjoyed telling me stories of their childhoods – my maternal
grandmother Emily Irvine Chambers Cassidy in County Fermanagh, Ireland and my paternal grandmother Maria McFarland
Porter in Philadelphia, Pennsylvania. Both came from large
families and it was hard to keep all the names straight. Each generation had
several Jameses, Allans, Johns, Marias, Emmas, Margarets and so forth.
In the 1960s, in my teens, I became
aware of a heavy, old photo album with a worn velvet cover and fat cardboard
pages. The clothes were old-fashioned and I was interested in historical
costume. But there was no writing on any page – and nobody was smiling!
So I sat down with Grandmom
Porter and we went through the album. It had been a wedding present to her parents
Maria Harvey and Charles McFarland in 1888 and held their large photo
collection of family and friends. She identified everyone and explained their
relationship to her (which I wrote on each page). In between, she told me
stories about them all – and I could cry now because I didn't have a tape
recorder to catch what she said. I’m also sorry that I didn’t remove the
pictures back then because two were tucked behind others and remain
unidentified.
Maria Harvey McFarland and Emma Harvey Mills - early 1870s
That was the start of my interest in
genealogy but it didn’t go far for the next 30 years. In the '70s, my mother's
older brother (her family's historian) took me to his local LDS Family History
Center where we pulled up the 1901 Irish Census on a microfilm reader and found
my great-grandfather James Irvine's return in Kesh, Fermanagh, showing my
grandmother at age 14. But the LDS Center was 30 miles from my home and I never
returned. After I married, my mother-in-law showed me her huge genealogy
collection – and computer software – and I was inspired to begin again and
organize it on the computer.
So I sat down with my folks and
picked their brains. It was harder after 30 years, but a lot bubbled to the
surface. Thankfully, Mom grew up near Dad in South Philadelphia and each knew
many of the other's relatives. Going through their old photos sparked
questions. Then I started to write to cousins and second-cousins who were very
generous in their responses and in sending names and addresses of more cousins
– as well as pictures, memories and stories that were handed down to them.
One second cousin inherited my
paternal great-great-grandmother Maria Fassett Harvey’s Bible which contained a
host of marriage, birth and death dates and she gave me beautiful color photocopies
of these ornate pages. Maria listed the deaths of her parents, William and
Maria Darragh Fassett, whom I didn’t realize came to America. It also gave
dates for her brother and sister and some of their children. Here were branches
of the family that I knew nothing about although their pictures are in the
velvet album.
From Maria Fassett Harvey's Bible
Another second cousin sent a
collection of newspaper obituary clippings which his grandmother, Emma Harvey Mills,
began and his mother, Emma Mills Collins, continued. The dates are cut off and
I don’t know which Philadelphia paper they came from, but they supplement the
Bible’s information with addresses helping me identify them on census returns.
My new hobby took off like dynamite
aided in very large part by the computer and Internet. Genealogy is a huge
interest (and business) and the Internet has countless records on it which
previously were available only on paper in libraries and historical societies.
Before this, I could only look at census records on microfilm when the LDS
Center was open but now I can search the same records at home on my computer –
at 10 pm in my pajamas. Genealogy interest groups trade information via email.
I belong to several free Rootsweb surname and location email lists and
recommend them highly:
http://lists.rootsweb.ancestry.com/index/index.html
Many online records require a
subscription to access but more and more basic records are free. I read the US
Census returns online through my local library membership. Being able to save
and study census return images on the computer screen has yielded amazing
results – as well as raised more questions that may remain unanswered for a
while. Time stood still for my ancestors, particularly the women, who aged as
little as five years between each census. Consequently, birth dates can be
questionable. Baptism records seem more accurate – they seem to have lied less
often to the church than to the census taker!
U.S. census records in the 19th
century gave names of those in the household, their relationship to the head of
the family, age, occupation, ability to read and write, and sometimes financial
information. Census takers' spelling can be "creative" and one fellow
listed everyone by their middle name and the initial of their first name. Until
the 1900 census, street addresses were not given, only the city ward.
Thankfully, I've been able to track Philadelphia ancestors through old city
directories online. This is particularly important since the 1890 Census
records burned – leaving a huge and important information gap.
Beginning with the 1900 U.S. census,
mothers were asked how many children they bore and how many were still living.
Child mortality was something I had read about in school but suddenly this was
my family. My great-great-grandmother Harvey bore ten children but only six
lived to maturity. One consequence of that is that today none of her
descendants carry the Harvey surname.
The LDS Family Search Site (https://www.familysearch.org/search/collection/list)
is a gold mine for me contributing Philadelphia Marriage Indexes and Death
Certificates, WWII "Old Men's" Draft Registrations, New York
Passenger Arrivals, and other records I haven't looked at yet. And it's all
free!
I'll finish with two wonderful
connections I made using the Internet. Family Tree Maker software allowed me to
construct a web page displaying my database and photos to share with family and
other researchers: http://familytreemaker.genealogy.com/users/f/o/h/Linda-P-Foh/index.html.
One day I got an email from a 2nd-cousin-once-removed in California
who stumbled on my site in searching for Maria Fassett Harvey – her great-grandmother
and my gr-gr-grandmother. My site mentioned a family "legend" that
this immigrant ancestor had sewn and displayed a flag when Abraham Lincoln was
shot in 1865. My father saw the flag as a child but nobody knew what happened
to it. "It's true," she wrote, "and my mother has the
flag!" Dad knew her mother but hadn't seen her in 60 years and was delighted
to contact her again. She was a very sharp 90-year old and a fountain of family
information. Later that year, a large family reunion was held at the Union
League in Philadelphia where the restored flag was contributed to the League's
Civil War collection. It now hangs proudly on the second floor landing opposite
a life-size equestrian portrait of George Washington. Great-great-Grandmom
Harvey would be amazed.

The Harvey flag at the Union League
Except for my maternal grandmother who came to America in 1912, I don't know where
my other Irish immigrants were born – my "brick walls" – so I've
researched her family and ancestors drawing on information from second cousins
in County Fermanagh. In 1983, her niece, Agnes Irvine Cole, in England gave me
a copy of an old letter and photos from New Zealand. It was full of family
information of the sort you might send to cousins in the "old
country" whom you'd never met. It was written on a lawyer's letterhead: "Lewis
O'Neill, Hamilton, New Zealand, 190__" but it was an interior page,
therefore missing the salutation, closing and further introduction and
explanation. Agnes said it was written to her grandfather, James Irvine, (who
raised her) by a cousin on his mother's side.
In 1983 I had no idea how to trace
it so it sat in a box – until 2002 when I sent an inquiry to a Rootsweb list
for New Zealand. Back came all kinds of helpful information. Lewis O'Neill was
identified through online legal archives. His father James and uncle Allen O'Neill
immigrated to New Zealand in the early 1800s and became prominent citizens
leaving huge paper trails, much of which is available online now. Their lengthy
obituaries placed them in County Leitrim where my great-grandfather was born.
Two "listers" from NZ helped me construct a detailed family tree for
this clan. However, the exact connection to my great-great-grandmother remained
plausible but unproved.
Then, in 2008, a descendant of Lewis'
uncle, saw my 2002 post in the Rootsweb archive and contacted me with a wealth
of information about her family's Leitrim roots. The immigrant brothers had a
sister with the same name as my gr-gr-grandmother, Jane O'Neill, so the NZ
lawyer and my great-grandfather could be first cousins. The link became more
plausible – I just needed to find her marriage record. Allen and James
O'Neill's younger brother Lewis immigrated to Philadelphia around 1830 and his
son Aaron was well established when the first of my grandmother's siblings came
to Philadelphia in the 1890s. Is this why they picked Philadelphia out of all
the Irish communities on the east coast? Nobody remembers hearing a reason and
it never occurred to me to ask my grandmother!
Genealogical research never ends – it's always a
work in progress. Thanks to 21st-century technology, the Internet
and the "random acts of genealogical kindness" of so many online
researchers, I'll probably be working on this for the rest of my life. I guess
as a nation of immigrants, we Americans (and our ex-colonial cousins around the
world) want to know where we came from and won't be content until we dig just a
little deeper. Good hunting, cousins!